Please don’t spam and please stay on topic.
This weekend Elliot Silver posted about commenting on his blog and restrictions on what “name” you can use in the comments. (Your name is optionally linked to a URL.) Elliot threatened to remove the URL of anyone who used a spammy keyword name to link to a web site.
That’s a nice first step but doesn’t go far enough.
I used to measure the success of my posts by the number of comments, but then I realized that many comments are just spam or off topic.
Commenting is a valuable part of the blog experience and I don’t want to curtail legitimate comments in any way. Comments should be made in the interest of adding value to everyone’s experience.
So I’d like to outline ten rules to commenting:
1. If you use a spammy keyword name and link it to a web site, I might delete your entire comment.
Often times the comments tied to these are actually spam comments from bots or paid linkers. So when in doubt, I’ll assume these comments are spam.
Now this doesn’t mean you can’t use your site name in a comment. For example, if Elliot wanted to comment on my blog and made his name “Elliot’s Blog” instead of “Elliot Silver”, that’s fine. Or you can link to your SEO service, blog, mini-site company, etc. But if your name is “Best Teeth Whitening” and you link off to some affiliate site, your link/comment will be deleted.
2. I use ‘no follow’ not on principle, but because of what happens if you don’t use it.
WordPress enables ‘no follow’ links in comments by default. I considered turning it off once. But did you know there are services out there that collect URLs of blogs that don’t have ‘no follow’ turned on? Yeah, and they even have services to spam those blogs.
3. You don’t need to use your real name.
Even though I don’t want to see “teeth whitening” as your name, you can use a pseudonym or pen name if you want. Just remember that your criticisms are taken more seriously when you use your real name.
4. But you do need to use a valid email.
Otherwise your comment will be deleted.
5. Never use a URL shortener for either your name link or in-comment links.
URL shorteners present two problems. First, I have to actually visit the site to see what it is. Second, the redirect can be changed at any time. So please use the full link.
6. Don’t link to a parked page.
I don’t know a single parking company that will let you create links to parked pages, so don’t do it here.
7. Don’t make off topic comments.
I had one guy who would make a grievance about how he felt a particular company ripped him off every single time I wrote anything about that company. On topic discussions about the subjects of a post are fine, but if you make the same comment each time like this it detracts from the overall experience.
8. Don’t say I deleted your comments when I really didn’t.
Here’s a scenario that happens all the time that pisses me off. Someone will post a comment that lands in moderation or spam. They don’t see their comment so they immediately comment “why are you deleting my comments”.
9. If you Astroturf, I’ll call you out on it.
Every once in a while I’ll get a comment defending or promoting a company that is made by someone at the company. They try to hide their identity and act like a third party. Don’t do this.
10. Don’t use profanity or racial slurs.
Here’s my commitment to you: as long as you don’t run afoul of these guidelines, I welcome all comments whether or not I agree with the opinions. In fact, I prefer to hear differing opinions.
If you’re reading this post and considering it, then this post really isn’t targeted to you. There are only a handful of people who ruin it for everyone.